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How To Get Women To Like You

How to get women to like you? This is Dean Cortez from Tactical Attraction. If you’ve read any of my books, you’ve probably been dating some really hot girls recently, as a result of stuff I’ve taught you 😉

BUT…even though a big number of you are starting to get more girls (and hotter girls than ever before), something strange begins to happen…

As soon as they start dating a hot chick, they REVERT BACK to being a needy “wussy guy” who will do anything to keep getting sex from her 😉

So, they keep a hot chick for a few weeks or a few months… but then it all FALLS APART.


Most guys go through life without EVER getting the women they truly desire, because they think women are a “mystery” that is impossible to solve.

And so, they try to give a woman the things they THINK women want.

Some guys will spend money on her…

Some guys will always AGREE with her, and never challenge her opinions…

But most often, when a guy likes a woman, he will constantly make himself available to her. He thinks by spending the maximum amount of TIME with her — and making her feel he’s “always there” — she’ll eventually come around and start feeling attraction towards him. This is one of the worst ways on how to get women to like you.

The problem is, attraction does NOT work this way.

How To Get Women To Like You

How To Get Women To Like You

When you spend endless hours talking to her about life, and her problems, she may feel AFFECTION towards you.

The same emotion she feels towards her girl friends, and her gay hair dresser…

Or, towards her brother…

Or, her puppy.

But does she want to SLEEP with any of them?! Hell no!!

You see, sexual ATTRACTION is a whole different story. And it does NOT come from giving her gifts, taking her on expensive dates, or giving her all of your time and attention.

In fact, once you make a good first impression, you must LIMIT your time and availability in order to drive up her interest in you.

I’ll get into this in detail later. You don’t just want to “blow her off” and tell her you’re busy… you want to use SMART TACTICS to frame yourself as “the prize” that she’ll want to win.

(Ask a hot chick what type of guy she’s into. She’ll say tall, handsome, funny, rich… but the truth is, NONE of those qualities will matter if she meets a guy who knows how to “push her buttons” and feel REAL sexual attraction.)

Remember, women are NOT a mystery. In fact, they’re pretty simple and transparent. Understanding a woman’s needs and desires is NOT the head-scratching “puzzle” most guys think it is… IF you understand how to cut through all the games and bullshit, and stimulate her “attraction triggers.”

But, because most guys have NOT been having success with women, they assume that this IS a big mystery which they can never solve.

On the other hand, we all know a guy — maybe a co-worker or a friend of yours — who has a way with the ladies.

Maybe you knew a guy in high school, or college, who had an incredible “way with women.”

He wasn’t rich, or incredibly handsome. He wasn’t super “sweet” to girls — actually, he came off a bit arrogant and cocky.

The girls KNEW this guy was a “player”…

And yet for some reason, they COULDN’T RESIST him!

And while this guy is scoring left and right, you and the other guys are wondering, “How the HELL does he do it? What’s his big secret?” Find out how to get women to like you. Click here.

In this program, you’re about to learn ALL the secrets. The good news is that it’s NOT a mystery. Success with women is based on rules and principles that any guy can learn, apply, and master.

And all women share core NEEDS and DESIRES that you can learn to identify and capitalize on.

If you’ve been fairly successful with women, you’ve probably been following some of these rules instinctively without fully understanding WHY they work the way they do.

Once you understand WHY these rules work, and how to put ALL of the pieces together, your game will go to a BULLETPROOF level.

Put it this way…

Getting REALLY good with women is similar to learning a foreign language.

You can buy a phrase book, and learn how to say a bunch of different things.

But you’ll never become FLUENT this way.

You’ve memorized some phrases — you can say “good morning,” “how are you,” etc., but you can’t hold an extended conversation in that language.

The only way to become FLUENT is to put your book away, and immerse yourself in the culture.

You’ll learn much more rapidly this way. And soon, you’ll be having full conversations in any situation.

You won’t always be STRUGGLING to figure out how to say the right thing. It begins to flow naturally. It becomes second nature.

Guys who only learn “pickup strategies”… or can get girls sometimes, but don’t understand the RULES of attraction… only know the basics for certain situations.

In most OTHER situations, they struggle.

When you’ve got bulletproof game, you know how to handle EVERY situation with a woman and how to ELIMINATE all obstacles.

Think about these circumstances. Is she dating another guy right now? Do you want to talk to her, or take her home, but you’re worried about “blowing it?” What if she’s a friend that you want to turn into a girlfriend? Did she recently went through a breakup, and she says she doesn’t want to date anyone new?

These are just several examples of challenges. There are an ENDLESS number of these that you will face in your quest to get women.

Are you ready to make your confidence ROCK SOLID? Do you want to know how to handle ANY situation you get into with women? I want you to give this guide on how to get women to like you a quick look. Click here to download.

After you’re done watching it, talking to girls will feel like you’re playing an easy level on a video game that you’ve already beaten.

You will be FLUENT with women. You’ll learn the ways on how to get women to like you.

And that’s when YOU become the guy that makes other guys say, “What’s HIS secret?” 🙂

This video is getting pulled offline soon, so I urge you to watch it now! (It reveals ALL the secrets on how to get women to like you.)

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How To Get The Girl You Like

How to get the girl you like? If you’ve followed my newsletters for quite a while, you know how I often stress that ORIGINALITY is the most important quality that you can convey to a woman — from the way you dress, to how you approach the ladies and engage them in conversation.

On the other hand, when you fail to make a unique impression, she’s going to automatically lump you in with the last 37 chumps who tried to talk to her — and within three minutes of you paying for her cocktail, she’ll be excusing herself to “go find her friends.”

The key to building a bond with her is to engage her attention and get her to share information about herself. Then you’ll tell her how much you relate and establish rapport with her.

One of my favorite conversational tactics for accomplishing this is using COLD READS.

how to get the girl you like

How To Get The Girl You Like

This technique, which is used by psychics and palm readers, is a way to make the other person feel like you understand what makes them tick. It  makes you emphatic about what they’re going through, without them telling you.

The trick with Cold Reads is that the “observations” you’re making apply to virtually anyone. Yet there are psychological reasons why they work so effectively.

Human beings are self-centered, and we generally accept claims about ourselves that reflect how we wish to be.

Also, people are vain. We want to be seen as unique. Even though Cold Reads are usually vague generalizations — which would apply to your sister, just as they would to the hottie in the VIP room at the club — we want to agree with the person who skillfully “reads” us, and we’ll believe they have unusual powers of perception.

So forget about asking the generic “job interview” questions. (“So what’s your name,” “where are you from,” etc.) Get ORIGINAL with your strategy in order to capture her attention and impress her with your charm and confidence.

If I’m in a club, talking to some babe who’s acting hard to get, I’ll use a Cold Read:

“Y’know, Andrea, I get the sense that a lot of guys get the wrong idea when they first meet you. They think you’re stand-offish and a bit cold. But you’re actually a lot more sensitive, and funny, than people realize.”

Another example: “I get the sense it takes you a while to trust people. You’ve been hurt before by someone who was really close to you. But the people that do earn your trust, you’re always there for them.”

Or, “I can tell that you’re someone who usually plays it safe and doesn’t take chances, but sometimes you’ve regretted it because you missed out on an opportunity. But then other times, you’re spontaneous and adventurous, and you do take chances…and that’s when you’ve had some of the best times of your life.”

If she agrees with my “read”–and honestly, I’ve never had a woman totally disagree–I’ll follow up by telling her that I can relate, because I’m the same way.

This builds a bond between me and her. In order to solidify the bond do this; Tell her a quick story. One that illustrates how I’m the same type of person.

(If you’ve got five Cold Reads ready to use, you should also have five short stories to illustrate how you embody those same qualities.)

Here’s another cool one: “I can tell something has been weighing on your mind. You’re on the verge of making an important decision in your life, aren’t you.”

Pretty much all of us, at any given time, are contemplating a big decision (or one that is big to us, at least). Regardless, she’ll be surprised and impressed that you knew that about her.

She’ll volunteer more information about herself — and now you’re engaged in a deep, authentic conversation instead of trying to fill awkward silences.

Much of what a cold reader does is simply repeating back what the subject has said. If she affirms that she’s on the verge of making a big decision. You should nod wisely and say, “Yes, that’s right, and you’re really having a hard time with it.”

Act as if you already KNEW what she was going to say!

Some other Cold Reads that are vague yet “profound”:

“I can tell you have a strong need for others to like and admire you, but you also have a tendency to be critical of yourself.”

“You’ve got a hidden talent, or a passion, that most people don’t know about, and you want to pursue it– but something is holding you back.”

“At times, you’re really social and outgoing. But other times, you’re reserved and introverted.”

Once you add Cold Reads to your conversations with women, you’ll get a feel for which ones work best.

This is just one example of an original, thought-provoking conversational tactic. It surely is a good tool to learn when you want to know how to get the girl you like

To learn the COMPLETE arsenal on how to get the girl you like go to the link below. You’ll learn how to use them with expert precision in any situation, watch this short (but super powerful) video:

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