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Mark is a friend of mine that frequently comes to me for science of attraction / dating advice. He’s a fun guy: early 40’s, recently divorced (fortunately not bankrupt) and is currently having the time of his life getting back into the dating scene.
He deserves all the fun he is having but like all the guys who study my material on how to get more dates, John has a particular interest in how to date younger women. No, he’s not a child hungry Gneiss. I’m talking about vivacious, fun and sexy women in their 20s and early 30s. Those are the types of girls John has been dreaming to be with.
How to date younger women
Although he keeps himself fit, and outgoing what keeps him from dating the women he desires most?
See, John has his pet peeve when it comes to taking younger women out on dates that he doesn’t particularly like at all–he struggles with sealing the Deal.
I’ve been asked this question (how to date younger women?) millions of times by many men, and John I want to tell you that you’re not alone.
This is what they ask,
What’s the best way to invite this girl back to my flat?
The challenge that occurs for most men on how to date younger women is typically at the awkward moments at the end of the date. You know this: you’ve spent the whole time trying to make a good impression, you spent a heap of money and you pray that the end of it all AT LEAST she’d acknowledge the kindness and courtesy with a goodnight kiss.
Unfortunately this hoping and praying has a minimal success rate when knowing how to date younger women because there are many factors men are totally unaware of that make women unconsciously say “NO”, to turn you down.
What’s worse is that more often than not, you’ll get a peck on the cheek, a stiff awkward hug or a friggin lame handshake.
Some men have the guts to continue and muster the courage enough to invite her back to his place, but sadly this is an exercise in futility.
There are a lot of reasons women can say “no” to and even CAN make up reasons to just say no to you : i.e “it’s running very late and I have to be early tomorrow…really busy…uhm…err…bye.”
Many men fail in this stage of the dating process and it is understandable why this is so.
Do you believe and think that there is a way to escape this suicide charge or banzai kamikaze attempts?
How would you say if I had a fail-safe how to date younger women way to GUARANTEE that women will agree to come back to your place at the end of the date and obliterate the “underlying objection” that 99.9% of women ACTUALLY say NO to (without even you knowing what it is)?
You’d be a happy camper right? So, is there really a way?
ABSOLUTELY! I’ve recently discovered this breakthrough and I tell you, it will melt and vaporize all resistance away back to history!
Okay. First, you need to understand that there is a thing all people have in common and it’s FEAR.
Fear of what you may say?
It is FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN. This kind of fear is the same as fear of change. I’m sure you have felt this way before, i.e. got lost in an expedition, been moved up in a job position, taken more responsibilities, had a break-up, re-shift in career, etc.
For women, it is the same but only on a lesser scale.
You see, you invited her to go back to your place. She hasn’t had a clue of what even your place looks like, your neighborhood, she’s not even sure about a lot of things about you.
This is why it’s so important to show that you are a safe, stable, trustworthy guy.
(Strategically, you can “drop hints” into the conversation to accomplish this. My book on how to pick up girls called Tactical Attraction, will share you all the info you need to know.)
It totally feels natural for her to feel uber reluctance towards your invitation! If that is your goal and she has never seen what your place looks like, I would say good luck to you.
This is because your place – your environment – is UNKNOWN to her.
She feels like (well not entirely, since it’s a date) being kidnapped and brought to a far away place never to be seen again.
Problem is, the two of you don’t even know that this is EXACTLY the only thing that bugs her from going to your place.
It’s actually “fight or flight” for her and her mind subconsciously comes up with reasons NOT to go there, such as…
- Your place is a mess, wreaked in havoc, stinky, oily and dirty! (Women, who are so particular when it comes to cleanliness, will even reject the slightest sight of foul dirt or partial sanitation.)
- You might have some comic alley, hobbit-weirdo-roommate who is going to creep her out. (Yes, women have wild imaginations but honestly very keen intuitions.)
- You might have a girlfriend or wife that you didn’t tell her about – and she might show up and start some drama!
- You might live REALLY far away: an inconvenience for her when she wants to find her way back to her place.
Those are just a part of a stringful of other reasons that she could turn you down.
Here is what you need to do: ELIMINATE this nuisance belief of concern and suspicion, and make it EASY for her to think, “Sure, your place sounds fine.”
Magic? Nope–Simple but subtle suggestion.
Here’s the formula how…
You need to be able to SHOW your place FIRST and then take her out on a date.
Confused? Hang on, this is how ingenious this is.
Call her up and tell her that you’re excited to bring her to this famous Italian restaurant (if she loves Italian that is, find out what food she loves first.) for a wonderful evening tryst. You can’t tell her where because it is a surprise and assure her that it’s just in the midst of the central town. Then you ask her to MEET you outside of your place so that you together would go and drive up to the date location.
(Notice, you didn’t say “come over and hang out at my place.” You said, “meet me OUTSIDE my place so that we can ride to the restaurant together.”)
Smitten by your sweetness and kindness, she’ll be more than glad to accept your offer.
There are elements to this set up:
A.) is that you are fresh and spontaneous and you offer a unique wonderful sweet and romantic evening date.
B.) your thoughtful enough to drive her to the restaurant and
C.) She’ll be curious of how your place looks like.
Here is how you perform this how to date younger women tactic.
Once she arrives at your place, be all “set to go” and meet her up in front. Make it seem like you’re rushing but so glad to see her. Give her a sincere compliment (“you look great”). Then, once you’re almost about to go, exclaim immediately that you forgot to do something.
Hey! How are you…oh my Gosh! I almost forgot, I need to send an email (or make a phone call) before we go. It’s for my work/business. Come inside for a minute.
Well, she won’t suggest she’d just wait outside. Naturally, if it’s evening she’d much prefer to be indoors. Of course, we also well know that she is curious to see the INTERIOR of where you live.
So, bring her inside …
While you spend 5 or 10 minutes in the other room, you are leaving her alone to check out your pad.
Trust me, women are nosy! She will definitely wander around and check everything inside your crib. She’ll notice the design of your interiors, your taste for color combination, the spaciousness and absence of clutter. She’ll snoop and notice each and every subtle detail to get a picture of the sophisticated taste you have as a man. Then, she’ll check your pictures, maybe even check your fridge for any unwanted evidence (like a girlfriend of wife you didn’t mention).
And this means you MUST…I repeat, you MUST have a very clean place! Women are attracted to men with superior hygiene and tight, squeaky cleanliness. Your bathroom should be absolutely spotless. I’m talking STERILE- open-heart surgery could be performed inside your bathroom! That’s how clean it should be.
Why? Good grief who doesn’t want a man who’s very particular with cleanliness and hygiene? (Plus, scented candles and very plush bath towels will make the right impression on her.)
So, after 5 or 10 minutes, you finish up your “business” and you come back into the living room and rejoin her. Now the two of you get in your car and go on your date.
That all sounded very seamless. Didn’t it? Yes. But what you just did with her is HUGE on a psychological level.
Now he has a comfortable picture of your place. It’s warm, spacious, cozy and most of all, clean.
When you try to suggest almost ANYTHING she will most likely comply because now she is sure that your place is a very favorable place to be in. Be it to watch a movie, have a glass of wine, or any Tactic in the book that you learned would have a much greater chance for success.
Now you’re nodding your head in agreement, right?
By now she’s picturing your cozy, warm crib and the comfort she curiously imagined your mattress would be in your master’s bedroom. You took her out for a great restaurant date, showed her you’re not some cheapskate or a malicious horndog. Instead you showed her, subtly, what a kind and generous gentleman you really are.
This did well to you both because now you know the value of being sensible and sophisticated when it comes to taste and also be very critical to cleanliness and hygiene. Which I know for sure you’re not even aware of 20 minutes ago.
So you take her out for a nice time, you get her back to your place, and that is when the MAGIC happens 😉
Mark has used that simple how to date younger women tactic last week with two different hot young women – a 23 year old, and a 27 year old. If you want to give your dating like a “turbo boost” and start dating younger women, read more about it below.